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Diamond engagement ring and a love that lasts forever

by Lorraine Jacobs

For most couples, exchanging marriage vows is the ultimate expression of true love they wish to reach in their relationship. A couple decides to take the next step after one of them proposes, usually asking the "Will you" question with a ring.It could be called a promise ring, a simple engagement band or a diamond engagement ring that the couple wears before their wedding to state their betrothal.It is a public statement that a person has agreed to be married to another soon and build a family with him or her.

It is not easy to shop for an engagement ring especially if you don't know what to start or what features should be considered.Of course, it is always easier if the couples shop together, but that is not always the case. So if you're going through with the surprise, familiarize yourself with the styles and designs of an engagement ring. Each ring has an embedded gemstone which can have a different cut, color and weight. One example of a popular ring design is the trinity or trilogy ring, a three-stone diamond engagement ring that is seen to represent the past, present and future relationship of the couple.

Marrying men can also wear an engagement band which usually is his wedding band, too.The former, on the other hand, wears an engagement ring after accepting a proposal and a separate marriage band after the wedding. But the fact remains that when you decide to get married, you would need to purchase at least three rings.For many couples, they have opted to purchase a jewelry wedding bands in a matching set that includes a man's wedding band, a woman's engagement ring and a woman's wedding ring.

Getting married means that you are giving your love and dedication to you partner forever, which is the reason why diamonds have been associated with marriage through its rings.The strength of a marriage is associated with the strength of the toughest stone, diamond, such is why diamonds are the popular gemstone to use in marriage rings. It is the number 1 in the ranking of hardness minerals in the Mohs scale of mineral harness, a method used in comparing hardness of stones.On the practical side, diamonds are very resistant to scratches which would make it perfect for wedding rings that are used everyday.

Before buying a diamond engagement ring, set a budget range and do ample research. Diamonds, in itself, makes a ring more expensive than others because it is precious commodity with increasing value.The average price is somewhere between $3,500 and $4,000, depending on the diamond's color, carat weight, cut and clarity. The trick is to look around until you find the ring you feel your girlfriend will like and, at the same time, falling within your budget limit. A diamond ring adds a special feeling to the engagement, but it's size doesn't reflect the level of love you have for each other.

What every couple should remember is that the ring is only a physical representation of their love, and not the focus in the relationship.There are online shops and jewelry stores to guide you in picking the best ring at a price you can afford.You should also consider buying a set of jewelry wedding bands because it is usually offered a lower price.Most importantly, enjoy shopping!Remembering what the ring is for and who it is for is a great inspiration when shopping for that engagement ring.

It is a fact that a diamond engagement ring is associated with marriage because of a common feature. Both represents strength in the midst of challenges and trials. Couples wear a matching jewelry wedding bands to signify their forever love and commitment to one another. And that what marriage rings should be about, the promise and the vow that the ring symbolizes and not the material facts of the ring.

Published July 1st, 2010

Filed in Women